
celebration of life service over religious services

Choosing a Celebration of Life service instead of a traditional religious service is becoming increasingly common for people who want a more personal, joyful, and often secular way to honour a loved one’s memory. Here's an overview to help you understand the difference and what a Celebration of Life typically includes:
🎉 Celebration of Life vs. Religious Service: Key Differences
Feature Celebration of Life Religious Service tone Uplifting, joyful Reverent,
✨ What’s Typically Included in a Celebration of Life
- Welcome & Introduction: Often led by a celebrant or family member.
- Photo slideshow or video montage
- Personal stories or eulogies from family and friends
- Favorite music (live or recorded)
- Display of meaningful items (hobbies, artwork, achievements)
- Memory table or guest book
- Interactive elements, like sharing memories or lighting candles
- Food & gathering – sometimes more like a party or open house
💡 Why People Choose a Celebration of Life
- The deceased wasn’t religious
- The family prefers a more personal or informal tone
- A desire to highlight joy, not just grief
- It can be more inclusive for diverse beliefs
📋 Planning Tips
- Talk to loved ones about what they’d want (or what the deceased wanted)
- Choose a venue that reflects their spirit or favorite places
- Include a variety of voices and perspectives
- Allow space for both tears and laughter
- Consider hiring a non-religious celebrant to help guide the event